“15 Things You Need To Know About Being Transgender”

If you click on this link you will come to a Huffington Post feature about a California bill for transgender student rights;  and if you scroll down, you will come to “15 Things To Know About Being Transgender”.

The ones I really liked, thought relevant and useful to the inquiring mind are the following:

4. Gender Expression

Out of the three terms — “sex,” “gender identity,” and “gender expression” — which do you think we notice most about people on a daily basis? If it were a person’s sex, then we would have to see under that person’s clothes or test his or her chromosomes (and even then we could get a conflicting report). If it were a person’s gender identity, we would have to either ask that person how he or she identifies or somehow get inside the brain and find the answer for ourselves. By process of elimination, you guessed it: it’s gender expression.

5. Orientation And Gender

If we look at society as a diverse group of individuals where heterosexuality might be the most common sexual orientation but not necessarily normal, then we can more easily see that human sexual orientation varies: some people happen to be straight, some gay, some bisexual, and so on. This does not necessarily have anything to do with a person’s gender identity or expression.

6. Coming Out To Oneself

Realization that one is trans can take anywhere from a few moments to several decades. Usually, trans people have an inkling early on in their lives that their assigned gender feels out of sync with their bodies. The self-realization process is extremely complicated. The human mind does its best to help us survive, which can translate into triggering intense denial. Because of societal constraints, it is common for a person to try to ignore signs pointing toward transgenderism, whether consciously or unconsciously.

10. Sex, Gender And Nature

Many plants and animals can be both male and female, biologically speaking, at the same time or at different points in their lives. In a comparison of 34 postmortem human brains, scientists found that the part of the brain comprising a small group of nerve cells thought to pertain to gender and sexuality were similar in trans women and non-trans women. Although the study only had one trans man’s brain, it found that group of nerve cells to be similar to that of a non-trans man. Perhaps Dr. Milton Diamond put it best when he said, “Biology loves variation. Biology loves differences. Society hates it.”

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